Teach Your Children Well

…in which Uncle Duke examines the role of parents in education.

 

I must be missing something in this education argument.  I mean, I keep hearing about how our public school systems are failing our children.  There is widespread finger-pointing going on towards “under-performing” schools, with ultimatums being issued and threats of de-certification thrown about.  I hear politicians grumble and rant on about A-C-C-O-U-N-T-A-B-I-L-I-T-Y, pronounced in that accusatory way guys in suits speaking into microphones have. The objects of their scorn, the way I hear it, are primarily teachers.  And the tone of their argument leads me to believe that teachers are on trial here.

 

Now, I understand that I have a tendency to overcomplicate things.  It’s been pointed out to me.  More than once.  But this whole issue is much more involved than we're choosing to make it.  And what aggravates me the most, what absolutely baffles me the most, is that I never hear anyone mention parents in this debate. 

 

Apparently, it is the perception of the general public that it is solely the job of teachers to educate our children.  We drop `em off, they educate `em.  Teachers are viewed as hired hands in charge of our kids’ minds.  We employ them to fill their little heads with the mechanics and the aesthetics of learning.  In the past several generations, we have largely relegated to the schools the task of transforming the spoiled fruit of our loins into motivated and directed little entities that appreciate knowledge and understand the value of the education that they are getting for free.

 

The fact is though that education is not free. There are strings attached.  There is a tacit agreement between parents and child and school.  Parents agree to send their children to school clean, well rested, fed and as well adjusted as someone their age, in This Age, can be.   Schools for their part agree to present the material that the society believes is valuable and is conducive to becoming a productive and creative member of society.  Teachers present the building blocks, from grade to grade, which are used to build higher and more complex intellectual structures.  If the presentation can be made interesting, or even fun, so much the better.  Homework is generally assigned.  This then comes back under the purview of parents, who are responsible for overseeing its completion.  The students’ job is fairly straightforward--- respect themselves, respect others, and do not get in the way of anyone else’s learning.   There is an equal partnership formed that is informal but binding.  No one has a free ride here.

 

            That’s the model anyway.  In the real world, teachers are asked to be disciplinarians, social workers, psychologist and off-duty policemen.  It is a demanding profession. There is the expectation that teachers can somehow cleanse the sins of the society.  That they can take kids with no boundaries and no family traditions of learning and transform them, without family support, into high achievers.  Those who don’t know diddly-squat about classroom dynamics, but want to be perceived as tough on incompetent teachers, are demanding we elevate our national standard test scores.

 

As if poor test scores are strictly the result of poor teaching.  As if turning the screws on teachers and administrators will raise the curve.  Where are most of these poor test scores anyway?  You tell me the percentage of educationally committed two-parent households there are in that number.  What is the percentage of poor urban and rural school districts in that number?  What are the expectations in those homes?  What kind of controls and follow-ups are there?  Our teachers are asked to improve the scores of kids for whom even average academic performance is a negative thing.  If they show any interest in school whatsoever, their peer status goes down.  They can get beaten up for a good test score.  Pardon me?  Who should be A-C-C-O-U-N-T-A-B-L-E here?  I say, screw your own manicured thumbs down.  There is blame aplenty here, and solutions are vastly more complex than your yearly testing proposals.

 

And where are those high scores, by the way?  Who’s acing these tests?  Why, surprise, surprise!  It’s kids from primarily Eastern cultures, where traditions and familial expectations are strong, where respect for learning and teachers is high.  There is ample evidence that respect for education and respect for teachers go hand in hand with performance. Yet teachers in this culture are bottom feeders.  Respect-wise, they are babysitters and lesser bureaucrats.  They are beggars and pleaders, often working in run-down facilities, asking for more resources to do their jobs effectively, holding bake sales and car washes.  And who, except those born with a passion for it, would want to teach.    Low pay.  Low status.  If it weren’t for summer vacations, we’d have illegal immigrants doing it.  If you ask me (And no one ever does!), our priorities are skewed. 

 

The whole premise of a participatory Democracy is that the populace must be well educated, well informed and able to make good choices.  Without that, the whole thing falls apart.  Without that, you have Gov. Jesse Ventura.   Let that be a lesson to us!

 

 The education of our children should be everyone’s first priority.  Whether they have kids of their own or not.   For a purely selfish motive.   Education is the key to the future of business, the economy, our own safety and well-being.  No altruism here.  It is the key to opportunity.  And opportunity, the ability to improve and better oneself, is the key to this whole society. Therefore, the education of our children is our most important task.  Period!  As a culture, we treat it like one of dozens of things we have to do.  Unh-unh.  Not good enough!

 

  To not recognize this is to ignore an evolutionary imperative.  Our children, you see, are all we really leave behind.  Unless we invent something darned important or assassinate somebody real famous, a hundred years from now we will be mostly dust, third-hand memories and illegible names in a file cabinet in the basement of some government warehouse.  Our children are our legacy, our connection to the future. Schools and teachers are but one leg of the tripod.  To not be an active participant in that school-parent-child partnership is to leave our Future to chance.  To not oversee and fertilize and tend their education is to miss the whole frigging existential point.   It is true what they say.  We are their first and most important teacher.

 

                                                                        Uncle Duke